I recall in my twenties when my go-to dress was a "nice" t-shirt, a pair of jeans, no belt, and high-top basketball sneakers. I was a real lady killer back then.

Now I do manage to exhibit a bit of style, but as alluded above, to the extent that I do, it's because I've had some excellent virtual mentors.
And, if I may say, that's what our young men need today more than ever--good mentorship.